"Mwana wadzuwa ndi wokondwa ndi mwana yemwe amatha kudziyimira pawokha.Iye (iye) amatha kulimbana ndi zovuta zamtundu uliwonse m'moyo ndikupeza malo akeake pagulu. "Kodi mungakulire bwanji mwana yemwe ali ndi dzuwa m'maganizo ndipo amakhala kutali ndi mdima??Kuti izi zitheke, tasonkhanitsa malingaliro angapo ogwira ntchito kwambiri kuchokera kwa akatswiri ambiri olerera ana kupita kwa makolo.
1. Kuphunzitsa ana kukhala okha
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti kudzimva kukhala wotetezeka sikutanthauza kudalira.Ngati mwana afunikira kugwirizana kwamaganizo kwachikondi ndi kokhazikika, ayeneranso kuphunzira kukhala yekha, monga ngati kumlola kukhala yekha m’chipinda chosungika.
Kuti mwana akhale wotetezeka, safunikira kuti makolo azipezekapo nthaŵi zonse.Ngakhale ngati sangakuoneni, adzadziwa mumtima mwake kuti mulipo.Pazofuna zosiyanasiyana za ana, akuluakulu ayenera “kuyankha” osati “kukhutiritsa” chirichonse.
2. Kukhutiritsa ana pamlingo winawake
Ndikofunikira kukhazikitsa malire ena mwachinyengo, ndipo zofunika za ana sizingakwaniritsidwe mopanda malire.Chinthu china chofunika kuti munthu akhale wachimwemwe n’chakuti mwanayo akhoza kupirira zopinga zosapeŵeka ndi zokhumudwitsa m’moyo.
Pokhapokha pamene mwanayo amvetsetsa kuti kupeza chinachake sikudalira chikhumbo chake, koma pa luso lake, akhoza kupeza chikhutiro chamkati ndi chisangalalo.
Mwana atangomvetsa mfundo imeneyi, ululu wake umachepa.Simuyenera kukhutiritsa zofuna za mwana wanu poyamba.Choyenera kuchita ndikuzengereza pang'ono.Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwanayo ali ndi njala, mungamulole kuti adikire kwa mphindi zingapo.Musagonje pa zofuna zonse za mwana wanu.Kukana zina mwa zimene mwana wanu akufuna kudzamuthandiza kukhala ndi mtendere wamumtima.
Kulandira maphunziro a “zenizeni zosakhutiritsa” zotere m’banja kudzathandiza ana kukhala ndi chipiriro chokwanira m’maganizo kuti ayang’anizane ndi zopinga m’moyo wamtsogolo.
3. Kuziziritsa ana akakwiya
Mwana akakwiya, njira yoyamba ndiyo kusokoneza maganizo ake ndi kupeza njira yoti apite kuchipinda chake kuti akapse mtima.Popanda omvera, iye mwiniyo adzakhala chete pang'onopang'ono.
Chilango choyenera, ndipo tsatirani mpaka mapeto.Njira yonenera kuti “ayi”: M’malo mongonena kuti ayi, fotokozani chifukwa chake sizikuyenda bwino.Ngakhale mwanayo sangamvetse, akhoza kumvetsa kuleza mtima kwanu ndi kumulemekeza.
Makolo ayenera kugwirizana wina ndi mnzake, ndipo wina sanganene inde ndi wina ayi;pomuletsa chinthu chimodzi, mpatseni ufulu wochita china.
4. Msiyeni achite
Msiyeni mwanayo achite zomwe angathe kuchita mwamsanga, ndipo adzakhala wokangalika m’kuchita zinthu m’tsogolo.Musamuchulukitse zinthu za mwanayo, lankhulani za mwanayo, pangani zosankha za mwanayo, musanatenge udindo, mukhoza kuganizira, mwinamwake mwanayo akhoza kuchita yekha.
Zomwe simuyenera kunena: "Simungathe, simungathe kuchita izi!"Lolani mwanayo "ayese chinachake chatsopano".Nthawi zina akuluakulu amaletsa mwana kuchita chinachake chifukwa chakuti “sanachichite”.Ngati zinthu sizili zoopsa, lolani mwana wanu ayese.
Nthawi yotumiza: Jun-06-2023